Jan. 22, 2026

Reddit AITA: Paranormal Nonbelievers

Reddit AITA: Paranormal Nonbelievers
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Join Caitlyn & Cassie as they chat about Reddit AITA stories featuring paranormal nonbelievers! How do you go about telling someone you don't believe in their ghost story? Or that there might be more physical evidence for Bigfoot than Jesus? Tune in for a fun discussion and let us know your verdicts!

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Am I the asshole? If I insist on believing in Bigfoot?

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I don't know how insistent are you? Is this where

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like the tables turn and now the paranormal person is

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actually the asshole?

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I don't know.

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I guess we'll see. My family doesn't have faith in Bigfoot.

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Well that's just depressing. I'm so sorry. That's really just

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I do.

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I hate to see it.

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This last weekend, at a family party, folks started ridiculing

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Bigfoot believers. I suggested that there's more physical evidence for

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Bigfoot than Jesus.

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Hi Caitlin Hi Kennessey. Oh, Happy New Year, creepy people.

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Oh my gosh, it's the new year. It is. We

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haven't been you since Christmas. This is true.

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I know.

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We did do a very important rerun I don't know

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if you guys noticed on New Year's Day. It was

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the rerun of the Chateau the Oregon Caves. Yeah, they

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still need donations, and we got an email from them

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saying that they still need help. So we did a

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rerun of that to remind you guys, if you haven't donated,

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to go donate to that because I would like it

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to reopen.

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Uh yeah, because it makes it really hard for us

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to play in a trip there if they're not open.

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I'm just saying, I mean, we could go, but we

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might get arrested.

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Yeah.

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I just feel like in my current state, I just

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don't think I can add trouble with.

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Law enforcement to the mix. I've just kind of got

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a lot on my plate. Yeah we do.

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Yeah, you know what else we have on our plates?

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What a new patreon we do? I call them just

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patreo patrons.

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What are they even called patron? We patre patrons. Yeah,

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we have a new creepy person. We have two patrons.

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We have two new ones, two new ones.

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Yeah. I don't think we shouted them out yet, but

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it's recent enough that I I'm not sure, so I'm

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gonna check.

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Oh we might have shouted her out already. H oh yeah.

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Uh sweetened gee, I was like, I feel like we

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didn't say their patreon name, but we said their real

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name on accident.

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I don't know if they care, if they cared or not,

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but I don't know.

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But you can let us know. Yeah, you're so sweet,

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you can let us know. I see what you did there.

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Oh and they're part of the never Bundy Tear.

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Yeah, and then we have a new creepy, creepy person

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at the creepy people tear super grams, super gram Hey,

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you're super I'm so creative with the compliments.

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Yeah, you're really You're really ailing it. They made it

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easy for me. They knew I was having a rough

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time and they just wanted, yeah, to make it easy

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on my brain. It's it's all we can hope for. Really.

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Yeah, Oh my gosh, So I just like went into

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the transition and forgot to Oh the rest of our

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show intro, which is, yeah, what is it? This is

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PNW Haunts and Homicides, where we chat about true crime,

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the paranormal, and all things spooky in the Pacific Northwest.

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Yeah or the pnwf nasty.

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And then we also do a tarot reading at the

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end of every episode for a little deeper insight into

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our top. And then you just got progressively quieter and

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quieter and whispered the last word. I don't know. I

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don't know what's going on. I don't know what does anymore.

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I think we're doing it. I'm trying so hard. Yeah,

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we I don't know if we talked about it, but

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my word of the year is.

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Try we have not talked about that.

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I love that for you. That's my word of the year.

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We're just trying, you know, we're just trying. So hey,

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this is me trying. Taylor Swift.

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Speaking of Taylor Swift, I watched the new eras for

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docuseries and I just want to say, I was like

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in a hole and that just kind of made me

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feel better.

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So if you're like filing the pest or whatever, I

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don't know, watch the Taylor Swift eras to Docuseries on

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Disney Plan not sponsored. Yeah.

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I actually I found something significantly shorter that had I

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feel like, kind of the same effect. It's like a

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four second video clip and it's really changed.

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It's really turned things around for me.

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It's a secret video clip. It's hidden on her phone. Yeah,

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you gotta have the password to get in there.

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Oh no, oh no, no oh no oh no, it's

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not from Chris. Not makes it worse.

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I know, Stop you're making it so much worse. Everything

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you say just makes it worse. No, I'm kind of

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distract I know, I know. I'm very excited gonna we

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are going to be having a new fuzzy creature joining

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our family.

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Oh are you announcing it. I thought you were keeping

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it a secret.

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Uh, I guess I didn't really given it much thought.

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Could you told me it was a secret. I think

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I just told you. I hadn't really told anybody else.

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So this is a secret. No, it's just it was.

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Late at night when we finished up making our initial arrangements,

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and so I was like, okay, well, not everybody wants

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to receive a text late at night announcing their puppy

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to the world.

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They don't belong in your life. Then that's true, you

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know what, It's true. It's true.

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Yeah, So we're not going to be able to bring

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her home for a little bit because she's so so tiny.

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She's so so dittle, little nugget.

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Yeah, and I don't know if her eyes have opened

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yet or not.

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Fully, it's a cuss thing. Oh my god, she's so

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so precious and I can't wait for her to come.

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And they've at my hat's new pod dog pod Dog

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and training. Yeah. Are you ready to get into the episode?

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I guess so. I kind of switched things up on you.

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Because I like to do that, all right, because I

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wasn't feeling the episode I have written, and I have

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a reason for that that I didn't really realize until I,

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like last night, I was thinking about recording it, and

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I was like, oh, that's emotional, Like what why am

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I trying to do this?

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Oh?

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No, very emotional thing on top of like everything that's

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going on in my brain.

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So I was like, you know what, We're just not

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gonna do it. We're not feeling it. So I have

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a surprise for you. Okay, Oh yeah, I think I.

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Scrolled through redd End until three am last nar shut up, Yeah,

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and we're gonna I just pulled ten different things, So

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I'm just gonna have you pick numbers until we finish

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an episode.

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Read what Oh my.

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Gosh, Okay, so what you I don't know that I've

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even told you, But I have some stuff that I've

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been working on that's in a very similar vein oh brains.

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Yeah. Is it spooky stuff or is it true crime stuff?

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Could be a little bit of both. So pick a

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number between one and ten. Okay, I'm gonna go with,

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uh three. I knew you were going to pick three.

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Should I not have picked No? I just knew that

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was the number you're Oh, okay, I have an am

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I the asshole? For you? Shut up.

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Really, yeah, I was not expecting that because you like those.

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I do like those. I know that.

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I just was like, is there going to be an

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am I the asshole that like that fits?

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I'm so curious now there are.

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Or any of you say anything about we don't know

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where these are. These could be in the Pacific Northwest,

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it could be anywhere.

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You know what.

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We're in the Pacific Northwest and we're talking about it,

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so deal with it. Yeah, okay, that's the theme for

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the day that connects to PNW perfect.

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It's it's our show and that's what we're doing. That's

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how it connects.

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Yes, okay, Ai ta for not believing my boyfriend who

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says he is dealing with paranormal events? Will you tick

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the dramatic one first?

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I think? So oh oh, I'm suck excited. Okay, it's

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user Gabby. I don't know how to say the last

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name b riends. I don't know.

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You guys can go to my sources and click the

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link and figure it out for yourself.

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There you go.

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So MAYBF and I have been dating for around four months.

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That's not that long, no, and they're twenty one and eighteen.

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So oh they're pretty young, so maybe four months does

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feel like that's.

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A longer relationship.

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You have to think about it like dog years when

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you're dating, like at that age, that's like the equivalent

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of like a year for grown ups.

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Okay, so putting it that way, they've been together for

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the equivalent of a year. Sure, we're going with it.

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He has a few mental health related issues and we

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usually work around that. Last week he started acting distant,

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like he would look away from me when we were

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talking and things like that. Yesterday he almost fell when

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we were walking and started acting weird. Later, he told

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me that he heard a scream and that pushed him

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to the ground. So that's he's saying, that's why he fell. Okay,

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I have pretty good hearing, and I didn't hear shit.

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I'm not really sure what to make of that, though.

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It's kind of funny, like I have pretty good hearing,

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I didn't hear shit.

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Yeah, I mean it sounds yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's

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something I would say.

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Then he started telling me about when he was young

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he saw things fly. I didn't like, like birds or

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what kind of things. I'm just curious about that flying.

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I think these are like objects creatures.

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Yeah, I just feel like this is what this could

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be one of those posts where you're like info, no

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more details.

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Yeah, I don't.

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Believe in what he said. And when I told him that,

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he flipped out on me. I said, I needed a

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break to think. And now I have several missed calls

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over a hundred miss messages from him. Oh my god, Wow,

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that's intense.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I don't know if I'm a jerk for not

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believing in him, But after that, I wonder if he

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was just attention seeking or if he's mentally ill. I

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don't know if I should end it for good or

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try to help even even if I don't believe him.

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Advice Caitlin, this is your advice column. Oh great, no pressure, right.

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I mean, even if you're not experiencing the same things

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or sort of like witnessing the same things, I would

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think it's probably best you approach this, you know, from

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a perspective of like you don't necessarily have to believe

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that what he's saying is one hundred percent accurate, or

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you know, maybe there's a different interpretation that you have

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of the same events, but just being supportive and maybe

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I think I think this comes up a lot actually

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in relation to like hauntings and paranormal stories where people

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are advised, Yes, we should probably explore every possible like

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quote unquote normal explanation before we jump to you know,

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poltergeist whatever. So definitely, you know, just doing a little

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mental health check is is always good.

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That's a good place to to start.

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Yeah.

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I think a lot of people in the comments were saying,

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like it sounds like the start of schizophrenia, like kind

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of yeah, the acting distance and hearing things, seeing things,

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you know.

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So yeah, I feel like it's it's worth checking out.

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And it sounds like.

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There's a little bit of a history there with some

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mental health issues, although it sounds like he'd argue that

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it's a history of.

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A pair normal, right, Yeah, but I mean it.

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Either way, you know, I think it's it's worth exploring.

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I will say, I.

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Feel like everything combine, like the one hundred missed messages,

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that's yeah, that's kind of that a big indication, red

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flag of something maybe else going on there.

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Yes, yeah, I do think at that point it makes

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it puts a little more into the column for you know,

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potential concern for mental.

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Health in our professional opinion, Yes, and our very very

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professional opinions in our professional podcast or opinion exactly exactly.

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Yeah, definitely, a ton of people. I was I wasn't

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totally like reading the comments, but a lot of them were.

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I mean, the comments is where. That's where you gotta go.

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Yeah, you've got to go there to see what people

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are saying. That's kind of the whole that's the whole thing.

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But I don't I agree.

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Though that because for everyone just immediately if you tell

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a ghost story, they especially I feel like on Reddit

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they're like, oh, that's a hallucination.

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You're hallucinating, Like that's in your brain.

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Yeah, And I feel like it happens in so many

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different subreddits and like different situations where there definitely can

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be a real dismissive vibe whatever is happening.

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You know, everybody.

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Has their own opinion, but some people can really downplay

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or be dismissive of of Yeah.

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I mean, at the very.

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Least, I feel like you owe it to people to

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just you know, okay, hear me out. You know, yeah,

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so far he's not putting anybody in danger. Hopefully it

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doesn't sound like yeah, so I feel like, you know.

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You know, maybe the beginnings of stalking, that could be that.

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Could be like, yeah, I mean if it rises to

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that level, for sure. But I think you know, approach

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things with you know, openness and kindness, and I think,

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you know, I have to think about safety, like I said,

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but you know, I think that results are so much better.

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You know, people get closed off when you immediately are

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kind of objecting to to their experience or invalidating them.

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So because I don't know, someone did in the comments

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say like it's real to them.

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So like exactly, Yeah, regardless of whatever the cause is

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happening in their like right's they're experienced real distress.

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Yeah exactly. But then again, like it is your boyfriend,

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you're very young, like it might not be your responsibility

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to you know, make sure this person gets mental help either.

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Yeah, And that's where I feel like you do have

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to be really cautious about, you know, making sure that

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you're taking care of yourself and really putting you know, safety,

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and that can mean so many different things, but putting

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that at the forefront, because yeah, you're very young and

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you guys have been together for such a short time.

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You know, you can't let somebody four months.

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Yeah, if it's meant to be, it'll be not just kidding. Yeah,

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let him go, let him fly like the objects that

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he sees.

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Yeah, I mean just to you know, just perspective. Okay,

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I have jars of pickles in my fridge that I've

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had longer relationships with than four months, so you know, yeah,

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I'm just saying I wouldn't. I wouldn't let a jar

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of pickles ruin my life, you know, in a in

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a serious way.

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So I don't know for what it's worth.

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What if those pickles are telling you that they're seeing ghosts.

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Well, I feel like the pickles, you know, they're seeing

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things from a different perspective than me.

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So I'm I'm opened hearing them out a submerged perspective, right,

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they're in vinegar.

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Maybe maybe it's like, maybe it's a ghost that like

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is specifically hanging out in the fridge. And in which case,

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I think probably the pickles are gonna be the expert

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technically in that scenario.

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If you are a pickle and you are being haunted,

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email US office the Gmail talk Oh my god, Okay,

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well please someone right a haunted like creepy pasta or

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what am I trying to say? Write a creepy email

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to us from the perspective of a pickle being haunted.

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Yes, please, if you don't do it, I'm gonna do it. Yeah,

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it's gonna happen, I think.

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Okay, Okay, I'm excited to see if the next story,

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if there's any way that this pickle situation, you know,

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kind of carries through, it'll be really interesting.

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Yeah. No, no, no, okay, pick a number between one

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and ten. Okay? Seven? Who seven minus three? Oh well,

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you're already picked three. Yeah. I was like, you want

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me to do math?

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Or I would never ever do that too. Am I

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the asshole for banning my girlfriend from a group chat

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after she upset people by insisting ghosts aren't real?

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I don't think so. It kind of sounds like she's

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the asshole. Don't you think?

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I don't know. Let's hear the story.

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Okay, So my girlfriend and I are in a big

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group chat with about a dozen of our mutual friends.

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That sounds like a nightmare.

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Yeah, that's miss.

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This past weekend, some people were chatting about paranormal experiences,

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and one of our friends, Anne, was saying how her

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mom once came to see her a few years ago.

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Long after she had passed.

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Oh oh, by the way, this is from user bubbly

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a D five four three seven Bibbly Bubbly Michael Bubbly

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Michael Burbler.

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So Anne lost her mom when she was eighteen to

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a very sad, unnatural event, which she definitely still struggles with.

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I like want the I want to know, but I

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don't because that sounds very ragic.

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I'm like, Okay, when you say an natural, do you

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mean like a really like tragic, maybe kind of a

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bizarre like like final destination, typreak accident, incident, or are

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you saying like like murder, true crime.

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Yep, you read my mind. Yeah, because that's unnatural as fuck.

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Yeah, that's yeah, But that's d either way.

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This is something most of us know.

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But granted, my girlfriend may not be as familiar as

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she doesn't know them as long. I think they hasn't

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known them as long.

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Oh okay, yeah, we get what you're saying.

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Anyways, as Anne is relaying her story, my girlfriend chimes

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in and starts peppering Anne with all sorts of questions.

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My girlfriend is a huge skeptic and says Anne's experience

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was probably a combo of hallucination slash exhaustion since it

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happened around two am, and gets really defensive, but my

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girlfriend doesn't let up. She ends up calling Anne loopy

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and something like sorry, but sane adults don't see ghosts.

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Sounds like you had a mental break from reality due

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to grief.

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Wow, your girlfriend is a sea next Tuesday, your next Thursday,

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and not in that good way?

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Oh my god? Wow?

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See and never how about that? That is so aggressive?

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I think we're seeing who the asshole is.

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Yeah, it's like one thing to not not believe somebody.

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You don't have to believe, but don't shit on this

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poor person. And we did.

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We just talked about sometimes it can be mental health.

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Sometimes it can be hallucinations. But when you've had a

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traumatic event and you're telling someone that you like felt

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your mom's spirit or saw your mom's or whatever, like,

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that's come on, that's not the time. Yeah, tell someone

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they've had a mental break. Obviously they've had a mental

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fucking break. Okay, their mom died.

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Yeah.

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Here's the thing, though, is in what way is that productive?

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In what way is that helpful or kind? Like?

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Is she hurting anyone?

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No? No, I don't think so. The story doesn't say

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that she is, doesn't give us any indication that there's

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any harm happening here. And this is something that I

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don't know how long ago that you know, she supposedly

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saw her mom's ghosts, but this is something she's looking

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back on, like in hindsight, whether that was two weeks ago,

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two years ago, whatever. Why why do you have to

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try to take that from her? That's probably really helped

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her cope in this time since her mom has passed.

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You're just like not a nice person.

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And like we said, it's real to them.

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Yeah, even if you believe that, and maybe you're right,

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but you can be right and still an asshole.

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Yeah, exactly.

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In fact, I would argue sometimes being right when it's

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a very sensitive and emotional situation in particular, is the

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leading cause of being the asshole ofs holary. Yes, you

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care more about being right than like another human's feelings.

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Yeah, to the trash, there are a million times a

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day where like, well, okay, well that's a stretch, but

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there are some times when you know, people are talking

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to me and I'm talking to them and we're just

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like having a nice conversation, and they'll say something that

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like I know, to me is wrong.

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Or just not like resonate or not like morally wrong,

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but it's like it's wrong information because you know, I

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don't know, I hoard like random facts and stuff.

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Yeah, but like I'm not gonna stop our conversation and

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be like, well, actually.

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I don't know, like some people, some people are like

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that maybe, I mean, if it's important or you think

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that they would want to know. I feel like so

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much in any situation, in particular on like the this subreddit,

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like the any of these asshole situations, it's so much

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about like just read the fucking room.

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Yeah, yeah, some people can't. I don't know. I don't

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want to be a care I was just thinking, literally

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was thinking of Sheldon when I just said that, because

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I was like, oh, well, I mean, I don't know.

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I feel he is an asshole though he admits it.

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Yeah, I mean I think sometimes having an awareness and

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also like you can over time learn to sort of

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I don't, I don't know, for lack of a better

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way to put it, like you can learn how to

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behave better. You might not innately or inherently understand certain things.

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You might not know exactly how to interact socially or

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emotionally whatever with other people on certain levels, certain topics,

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but you can learn to do better.

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Yeah, and obviously like calling someone loopy and saying like

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sing adults don't see ghosts, I don't know, it's just

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it's just rude.

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No matter how you put it it, it is.

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Here's the thing is, if you're like a fucking internet

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troll and you just go to a subreddit and you're like,

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ghosts aren't real, I guess whatever. I wish you would

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find a hobby that wasn't so annoying for the people

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trying to talk about their ghost stories. But you were

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in a group chat with people that you are supposed

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to be friends with, yeah, which you're actually really like

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your boyfriend's friends that you're you should be trying to

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ingratiate yourself to. They're not being racist, they're not being homophobic,

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they're not otherwise.

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Hopefully that I mean, we don't know the whole context,

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but but they're like a huge group of assholes and she's, yeah,

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I don't.

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Know, they're just major bigots. Here's the thing I've had

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included in the story. I feel like it would have

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probably been sprinkled in that there's a little I'm just

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saying there's no reason for her to be going so

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hard on this person.

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That like, why why there's more, that's a little bit

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more to the story, so maybe we'll get a little

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more context. Oh my god, is this where the bigotry

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comes in? I don't know.

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Okay, so this is after she said really mean things

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to an okay for Anne, great, I know. At this

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point I started getting texts and calls from friends in

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the chat asking me to.

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Break up with your girlfriend.

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Well, I ask made me to tell my girlfriend to

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shut it, which is like, I don't know, like just

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back off. Yeah, but I don't know that I would

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be calling someone to tell them to tell their girlfriend

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to shut up.

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I don't know. Well, very I don't know. Oh, I

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don't know. I kind of understand it in this case.

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Normally I'm I'm pro not boyfriends telling girlfriends. What is

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okay yeah to say? Or its complicated feelings.

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Yes, yeah, I call my girlfriend she was out jogging,

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but no answer. I text her, no reply. I send

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her a long paragraph about Anne's context and to be sensitive,

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but again there's no reply.

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So the you've been texting this whole time. I know

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she's jogging and texting but can't answer the phone. Maybe

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she tripped over a log, her phone broke, I know.

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So the fight is still ongoing in the group chat

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and now some friends are defending Anne, but my girlfriend

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is on a crusade as a result. She gets heated

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during these kinds of arguments because she treats it like

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a debate. Oh okay, that was kind of sweet to

483
00:27:52.079 --> 00:27:53.079
give us context there.

484
00:27:54.880 --> 00:27:58.079
Okay, here's the thing. Debating is fun. Being an asshole

485
00:27:58.119 --> 00:27:58.279
is not.

486
00:27:59.039 --> 00:28:04.000
Oh my god, like, I'm sorry, that's not the same. Like,

487
00:28:04.079 --> 00:28:07.039
if you want to debate the merits of wearing plaid

488
00:28:07.160 --> 00:28:10.799
and stripes together, that's a debate that nobody gets hurt.

489
00:28:11.240 --> 00:28:14.000
Now this situation, you're just an asshole.

490
00:28:14.599 --> 00:28:19.559
Well, and a good debate is not calling someone insane, right, that's.

491
00:28:19.359 --> 00:28:23.079
Not a You need more evidence than that. Maybe she

492
00:28:23.160 --> 00:28:26.599
had it. I don't know. Yeah, again, is it helpful?

493
00:28:26.880 --> 00:28:30.000
Is it productive? Is it kind? Is it literally something

494
00:28:30.039 --> 00:28:33.559
that you would want someone to say to you. I

495
00:28:33.559 --> 00:28:35.240
don't know. Maybe she likes it.

496
00:28:36.799 --> 00:28:40.680
Anyways, With no other option, I just temporarily kick my

497
00:28:40.720 --> 00:28:44.200
girlfriend out of the group. I have adminisers and she doesn't,

498
00:28:44.799 --> 00:28:46.880
so it seemed like the quickest fix at the time.

499
00:28:47.400 --> 00:28:50.200
Immediately I get calls from my girlfriend accusing me of

500
00:28:50.240 --> 00:28:53.319
siding with another girl and not giving her a chance

501
00:28:53.359 --> 00:28:54.440
to explain her side.

502
00:28:54.480 --> 00:28:57.880
He called you, he texted you. Yeah, I'm sorry, bitch,

503
00:28:57.880 --> 00:29:03.720
your phone's working again. Weird. She's incredibly pissed off and

504
00:29:03.839 --> 00:29:09.880
won't hear my reasoning. No one likes you. You're the worst,

505
00:29:10.920 --> 00:29:11.359
she says.

506
00:29:11.400 --> 00:29:14.160
I lost all credibility in the moment I kicked her

507
00:29:14.200 --> 00:29:19.599
out and censored her without warning. Was I the asshole

508
00:29:19.640 --> 00:29:22.279
to do this so quickly in the moment, I just

509
00:29:22.319 --> 00:29:28.960
wanted to stop the fighting with what seemed like the easiest, easiest, easiest.

510
00:29:28.720 --> 00:29:31.759
Fix, easiest fix.

511
00:29:31.799 --> 00:29:35.480
As hard as it is, she was like not, she

512
00:29:35.640 --> 00:29:40.799
was not She was not listening to anybody.

513
00:29:41.920 --> 00:29:42.839
Like you.

514
00:29:42.960 --> 00:29:45.119
Tried to reach out to her and just be like, hey,

515
00:29:45.240 --> 00:29:48.160
can you not. She didn't even answer.

516
00:29:48.799 --> 00:29:52.480
No, you didn't give me a chance to you. You

517
00:29:52.519 --> 00:29:53.359
had your chance.

518
00:29:55.200 --> 00:29:58.640
You can't continue to argue and then someone stops the meanness.

519
00:30:00.119 --> 00:30:05.599
No, I'm sorry, you're trash. You're objectively like a mean

520
00:30:05.799 --> 00:30:06.759
trash person.

521
00:30:08.079 --> 00:30:11.240
I hope they I don't know. I hope they broke up. Yeah,

522
00:30:11.960 --> 00:30:16.200
I love five years ago. So oh my gosh, Michael Buble,

523
00:30:16.359 --> 00:30:17.359
I hope you're okay.

524
00:30:18.039 --> 00:30:21.119
God, I really hope she's still out there on that

525
00:30:21.240 --> 00:30:22.400
trail eating bark.

526
00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:26.640
Oh. I was like, what could she tripped over a log?

527
00:30:28.880 --> 00:30:32.480
Go eat bark thors Okay.

528
00:30:32.519 --> 00:30:34.720
So I think there's like I'm sensing a little bit

529
00:30:34.759 --> 00:30:36.960
of a theme with these posts I've picked.

530
00:30:37.400 --> 00:30:41.359
Oh, like, you know, people not believing people. Yeah, that's

531
00:30:41.440 --> 00:30:42.559
kind of that's fine.

532
00:30:43.799 --> 00:30:45.880
That's fine, But you don't have to be an asshole

533
00:30:45.880 --> 00:30:47.680
about it. You guys, it's dick road.

534
00:30:48.000 --> 00:30:50.920
Don't be dick episode two.

535
00:30:51.519 --> 00:30:55.839
We've been saying it for literal years, been saying it

536
00:30:55.880 --> 00:30:56.559
for years.

537
00:30:57.119 --> 00:30:59.839
I think I just started pulling these because I'm I'm

538
00:30:59.839 --> 00:31:02.640
always like I like to see both sides, because we

539
00:31:02.680 --> 00:31:06.200
always say like, yeah, we believe everybody, especially if you

540
00:31:06.279 --> 00:31:08.599
send us a story through email or tell us a

541
00:31:08.640 --> 00:31:10.880
story like we're gonna believe you.

542
00:31:11.000 --> 00:31:12.720
We're not gonna We're not gonna be.

543
00:31:13.759 --> 00:31:18.039
There's a really good chance that based on the description

544
00:31:18.160 --> 00:31:21.440
that you provide us of a strange creature, we'll plug

545
00:31:21.480 --> 00:31:23.920
that into AI so that we can make a picture

546
00:31:23.960 --> 00:31:24.319
of it.

547
00:31:25.519 --> 00:31:27.759
Yeah, we didn't tell Clint he was crazy because he

548
00:31:27.839 --> 00:31:31.519
saw something like No, I'm not going to do that,

549
00:31:32.160 --> 00:31:32.519
I know.

550
00:31:32.599 --> 00:31:36.240
But Clint, that thing is nightmare fuel. Now that, now

551
00:31:36.240 --> 00:31:37.839
that I'm thinking about it again.

552
00:31:39.480 --> 00:31:44.759
I think about that often. Yeah, really like a lot. Yeah,

553
00:31:45.400 --> 00:31:49.960
probably more than it's healthy, I know, I know. Yeah.

554
00:31:50.119 --> 00:31:53.279
So in case you were wondering, Clint, your your story

555
00:31:53.279 --> 00:31:57.359
has impacted us, and for anybody else listening who's wondering

556
00:31:57.440 --> 00:32:01.599
if we would care about their stories, We're that just

557
00:32:01.720 --> 00:32:02.559
lives rent free.

558
00:32:02.559 --> 00:32:07.559
In my head, Yes we care, and you know, we

559
00:32:07.640 --> 00:32:11.480
might suggest if we see signs of maybe a mental break,

560
00:32:11.640 --> 00:32:14.240
I don't know, we might say like, hey, maybe look

561
00:32:14.240 --> 00:32:16.519
at this, but we know that it's real for you.

562
00:32:16.599 --> 00:32:18.559
Anything happening to you is real for you, and it's

563
00:32:18.599 --> 00:32:19.599
from your perspective.

564
00:32:20.319 --> 00:32:23.440
And we weren't there, and you know, how do other

565
00:32:23.519 --> 00:32:27.240
than we know? Yeah, who are we to judge? And

566
00:32:27.559 --> 00:32:30.759
we don't, you know, we don't necessarily with everyone that

567
00:32:30.839 --> 00:32:34.480
listens to the show know them personally, so that would

568
00:32:34.519 --> 00:32:35.279
be pretty hard.

569
00:32:35.079 --> 00:32:36.319
For us to assess. That's all.

570
00:32:36.400 --> 00:32:36.920
I mean.

571
00:32:37.559 --> 00:32:42.720
I have exceptional hearing and vision, but I can't see

572
00:32:42.759 --> 00:32:43.960
everything going on it once.

573
00:32:44.400 --> 00:32:50.359
I am not no god, Okay, So we did three,

574
00:32:50.519 --> 00:32:55.519
we've done seven, let's do four.

575
00:32:56.839 --> 00:32:59.000
Am I the asshole because I told my friend I

576
00:32:59.039 --> 00:33:04.559
didn't believe his ghost story? Oh my gosh, another butthole?

577
00:33:05.279 --> 00:33:08.440
Yeah, well, I don't know. Maybe we'll see maybe this

578
00:33:08.519 --> 00:33:10.039
guy won't be the asshole.

579
00:33:12.279 --> 00:33:14.720
Oh I should I guess I should have.

580
00:33:14.839 --> 00:33:17.920
I don't know if I should have said the results

581
00:33:17.960 --> 00:33:20.480
at the top, like after we were done.

582
00:33:21.400 --> 00:33:25.640
Oh, I guess we haven't. Really, we haven't shared the verdicts.

583
00:33:25.680 --> 00:33:28.400
That's a good point. We're really bad at Reddit.

584
00:33:28.839 --> 00:33:29.640
You guys.

585
00:33:29.839 --> 00:33:33.519
I don't know how the podcast yeah. Oh okay, so

586
00:33:33.559 --> 00:33:36.000
the boyfriend one just said advice needed. It didn't have

587
00:33:36.039 --> 00:33:41.119
a verdict. Okay, So the last one we did was seven.

588
00:33:42.160 --> 00:33:44.200
I mean I think we know what the verdict is

589
00:33:44.200 --> 00:33:44.559
going to be.

590
00:33:44.640 --> 00:33:47.559
Not the a hole Okay, yeah, with the girlfriend and

591
00:33:47.599 --> 00:33:50.160
the banning and the girlfriend's a hole, not the banner.

592
00:33:50.680 --> 00:33:51.200
Mm hmmm.

593
00:33:51.799 --> 00:33:55.960
Let me just say the user name Lucy more guns

594
00:33:56.359 --> 00:34:02.960
the genera. Yeah, yep, like I said, they'll all be

595
00:34:03.039 --> 00:34:04.200
in this LinkedIn the sources.

596
00:34:04.279 --> 00:34:05.200
Okay, there you go.

597
00:34:06.480 --> 00:34:09.119
Let me just say that we are still good friends today,

598
00:34:09.679 --> 00:34:12.559
and it is just something I have a hard time

599
00:34:12.639 --> 00:34:15.400
letting go of. You have a hard time letting go

600
00:34:15.480 --> 00:34:19.639
of it for real. A few years ago, my friend

601
00:34:19.639 --> 00:34:21.239
and I were on a road trip and we had

602
00:34:21.239 --> 00:34:25.480
a great time. It was just one discussion that was

603
00:34:25.519 --> 00:34:30.559
a hiccup. Okay, they discussed hiccups. Did you scare? Do

604
00:34:30.559 --> 00:34:31.960
you tried to scare the hiccups out of them?

605
00:34:34.039 --> 00:34:34.840
That'd be funny.

606
00:34:35.079 --> 00:34:40.440
Now, I feel like people really downplay hiccups and how

607
00:34:40.559 --> 00:34:42.159
uncomfortable they can be.

608
00:34:42.960 --> 00:34:44.800
Dude, I don't get.

609
00:34:44.639 --> 00:34:48.519
Them often, but I feel like saying something's a hiccup

610
00:34:49.760 --> 00:34:51.000
to me, I don't know.

611
00:34:51.440 --> 00:34:54.480
I'm like, I don't know, uncomfortable.

612
00:34:54.960 --> 00:34:58.599
Yeah, I don't know, man, I don't remember how we

613
00:34:58.639 --> 00:35:00.840
got into it, but I just said something along the

614
00:35:00.880 --> 00:35:05.079
lines of it would be cool if supernatural stuff actually existed,

615
00:35:05.199 --> 00:35:06.199
like ghosts or whatever.

616
00:35:07.039 --> 00:35:13.159
Okay, just coming in dropping a hot take and.

617
00:35:13.320 --> 00:35:16.239
Just like just as fact, it'd be cool if this,

618
00:35:16.840 --> 00:35:21.239
like yeah, right.

619
00:35:21.320 --> 00:35:27.239
Because I'm a scientist and I know everything. Gosh, that's fine,

620
00:35:27.360 --> 00:35:30.280
I get it. Not everybody believes that's fine.

621
00:35:31.840 --> 00:35:34.480
You got to feel it out though. I don't know. Yeah,

622
00:35:34.559 --> 00:35:38.119
maybe maybe just a vibe check, like a little I.

623
00:35:38.000 --> 00:35:40.280
Think, do you think? I don't know, I don't know.

624
00:35:41.320 --> 00:35:46.000
And he said ghosts do exist, he'd seen one, I replied,

625
00:35:46.519 --> 00:35:50.800
but I doubted that he did, okay, And he asked

626
00:35:50.840 --> 00:35:54.400
if I was calling him a liar, and then I

627
00:35:54.480 --> 00:35:59.079
remembered my exact words, and then I remember my exact words.

628
00:35:59.440 --> 00:36:04.480
I believe that you believe, which, God damn it. That

629
00:36:04.599 --> 00:36:08.039
is so condescending. And it is kind of what we

630
00:36:08.039 --> 00:36:11.119
were saying earlier, like it's real to you, but like

631
00:36:11.360 --> 00:36:15.320
saying it's real to you, I don't know, like there's

632
00:36:15.360 --> 00:36:20.800
a better way to say that. I think, yeah, I

633
00:36:20.840 --> 00:36:23.000
believe that you believe. It is just.

634
00:36:25.000 --> 00:36:30.159
I believe that you're crazy and maybe you were seeing

635
00:36:30.280 --> 00:36:34.119
things and to you that seems real, but it's not.

636
00:36:34.639 --> 00:36:37.320
And here I am to tell you how you're wrong.

637
00:36:37.800 --> 00:36:39.599
Is how my drop sounds.

638
00:36:39.880 --> 00:36:44.880
Yeah, it's a It's it's like saying no offense before

639
00:36:44.920 --> 00:36:45.920
saying something effect.

640
00:36:46.079 --> 00:36:56.679
My god, it's in the Geneva convention. I just feel like,

641
00:36:57.599 --> 00:36:58.280
here's the thing.

642
00:36:59.519 --> 00:37:04.960
All all of my feedback, input, advice, my thoughts, they

643
00:37:04.960 --> 00:37:10.000
would apply to so many different situations, like whether you

644
00:37:10.119 --> 00:37:15.440
called your you know, girlfriend a not nice name or.

645
00:37:17.320 --> 00:37:17.639
Just like.

646
00:37:19.480 --> 00:37:22.760
You just suck as a human. You're sucking at human ing, right,

647
00:37:22.760 --> 00:37:25.960
now because of how you're talking to this person, and

648
00:37:26.000 --> 00:37:29.519
I realized you maybe didn't mean for it to come across.

649
00:37:29.159 --> 00:37:31.679
That harsh, but but you suck.

650
00:37:32.639 --> 00:37:35.679
Yeah, I didn't mean for that to come across that harsh,

651
00:37:35.719 --> 00:37:38.480
but there it is, you know, there it is. Yeah,

652
00:37:38.679 --> 00:37:40.679
I guess sometimes it just slips out and you can't

653
00:37:40.679 --> 00:37:41.079
help it.

654
00:37:42.119 --> 00:37:48.199
That's what she said. So we didn't just call him out.

655
00:37:48.840 --> 00:37:53.480
He looked hurt and said that that's a really condescending

656
00:37:53.519 --> 00:37:58.960
way to say that. Oh interesting, huh, yes, the exact words.

657
00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:02.119
It's our felt vocabulary word for the day.

658
00:38:02.760 --> 00:38:09.199
Condescend is condescension a word, yepsen, I like that better.

659
00:38:09.800 --> 00:38:13.280
I do too. Your condescension astounds me.

660
00:38:14.679 --> 00:38:17.280
And I still think about it today. How else do

661
00:38:17.320 --> 00:38:20.320
you handle these things? Otherwise you just lie to them

662
00:38:20.519 --> 00:38:23.639
and say you believe them. You just switch the subject.

663
00:38:23.960 --> 00:38:32.960
Anyways? Was it condescending? Yes, yes it was. Yeah, you

664
00:38:33.000 --> 00:38:34.639
don't have to lie, but.

665
00:38:36.280 --> 00:38:38.840
Maybe Okay, So this is like what I do if

666
00:38:38.840 --> 00:38:41.360
I have a different opinion than someone as I hear them,

667
00:38:41.360 --> 00:38:44.840
I hear what they say, and I maybe will say like, well,

668
00:38:44.880 --> 00:38:47.000
I don't believe, and maybe I would say I don't

669
00:38:47.000 --> 00:38:50.320
believe in ghosts because of like science blah blah blah

670
00:38:50.440 --> 00:38:56.519
doo dooo do and then but you today, But I

671
00:38:56.559 --> 00:39:02.280
respect your opinion and your point of view and experience.

672
00:39:03.079 --> 00:39:05.159
And maybe it's like I don't be that deep either

673
00:39:05.199 --> 00:39:07.840
though you can just I just don't really believe in that,

674
00:39:07.960 --> 00:39:12.400
but like I don't. I'm not saying you're a liar.

675
00:39:12.840 --> 00:39:16.960
I just don't really believe in that. Yeah, do you

676
00:39:16.960 --> 00:39:19.519
see how that feels a little different? Do you feel

677
00:39:19.559 --> 00:39:23.480
how it? Did you feel the condescension leave the room?

678
00:39:23.679 --> 00:39:28.159
With that difference in phrasing, it is the condescension in

679
00:39:28.199 --> 00:39:29.079
the room with us.

680
00:39:30.719 --> 00:39:33.559
And the answer is to ask, I guess, ask more questions.

681
00:39:33.559 --> 00:39:35.360
I don't know, I'm a curious I'm a more curious

682
00:39:35.400 --> 00:39:38.679
person maybe, but I ask people a lot of questions

683
00:39:38.719 --> 00:39:40.599
about what they're talking to me about. So I would

684
00:39:40.679 --> 00:39:42.880
just try to learn as much as possible.

685
00:39:42.920 --> 00:39:43.199
I don't know.

686
00:39:43.239 --> 00:39:46.760
I don't need to like be right in the situation.

687
00:39:46.840 --> 00:39:48.519
We kind of already talked about that.

688
00:39:48.400 --> 00:39:51.840
But yeah, and I get it some people are really

689
00:39:51.880 --> 00:39:56.360
passionate about particular things. But what really cements for me

690
00:39:56.480 --> 00:39:59.840
that this person like kind of is just like I

691
00:40:00.239 --> 00:40:04.119
completely inept or actually kind of an asshole is that

692
00:40:04.159 --> 00:40:08.159
they're like, well, I don't know, like, is that condescending?

693
00:40:08.400 --> 00:40:11.840
Should I just have lied? So your options are to

694
00:40:11.920 --> 00:40:15.159
say something that like comes across like you think this

695
00:40:15.199 --> 00:40:18.599
person is a fuck with or to just lie.

696
00:40:19.280 --> 00:40:25.400
Yeah, there's no in between, no other option. Well, yes,

697
00:40:25.679 --> 00:40:28.320
I mean I assume it's a man. Yeah, I guess.

698
00:40:28.320 --> 00:40:30.800
I don't wait, it's as Lucy. I don't know, maybe

699
00:40:30.840 --> 00:40:34.119
it's not a man. Was the friend Lucy? Or no

700
00:40:34.440 --> 00:40:38.679
that's the user name? Okay, Well, chicks can be dicks too,

701
00:40:40.559 --> 00:40:42.480
do you know what I mean? I don't know why

702
00:40:42.519 --> 00:40:43.960
I assumed it was a guy. I guess.

703
00:40:44.000 --> 00:40:47.400
I just I feel like some of the wording does

704
00:40:47.519 --> 00:40:49.880
kind of energy. It gives neck beard.

705
00:40:50.239 --> 00:40:50.599
Yeah.

706
00:40:51.199 --> 00:40:55.400
Yeah, they still do think about it today and they

707
00:40:55.400 --> 00:40:57.880
are asking like was I rude?

708
00:40:58.000 --> 00:41:01.480
So maybe they maybe they're they do caybe and they're like,

709
00:41:01.519 --> 00:41:03.920
oh god, like was I an asshole? So they did

710
00:41:03.960 --> 00:41:08.400
come on here, But the consensus is it that they're not.

711
00:41:09.119 --> 00:41:13.719
And I don't agree with that. What Yeah, it says

712
00:41:13.760 --> 00:41:16.519
not an a hole? Okay. Well.

713
00:41:16.599 --> 00:41:22.159
Reddit has a long and storied history of sometimes being

714
00:41:22.320 --> 00:41:23.960
wrong in their verdicts.

715
00:41:24.599 --> 00:41:28.599
In case anyone was unaware. I don't know.

716
00:41:28.719 --> 00:41:31.519
I do think the fact that you still think about it,

717
00:41:31.599 --> 00:41:34.599
like to me that also says like, as much as

718
00:41:34.639 --> 00:41:38.960
I was saying this person you like, your status as

719
00:41:39.000 --> 00:41:43.320
an asshole is cemented for me because there's just like

720
00:41:43.440 --> 00:41:46.239
no in between with you and you seem like kind

721
00:41:46.239 --> 00:41:50.079
of ridiculous for that, the fact that you still.

722
00:41:49.880 --> 00:41:54.320
Think about it makes me think there is possibly potential

723
00:41:54.480 --> 00:41:58.199
for growth learning. That's learning. That's the most I can

724
00:41:58.280 --> 00:42:02.360
say for you. The learning opportunity I was. I just

725
00:42:02.440 --> 00:42:05.039
kept saying learning learning, it's a learning coptunity.

726
00:42:05.400 --> 00:42:09.079
Yes, I do like this one comment that says, I'm

727
00:42:09.079 --> 00:42:11.400
not sure how to judge this, but to at least

728
00:42:11.480 --> 00:42:13.960
one of your questions, yes, that was condescending.

729
00:42:14.559 --> 00:42:19.199
Yes, which I feel like is how you established as

730
00:42:19.239 --> 00:42:21.679
somebody as an asshole because what did the friend do

731
00:42:21.840 --> 00:42:24.840
that was asshole ish? So I mean it depends, I

732
00:42:24.880 --> 00:42:28.800
guess how closely you want to follow the different guidelines

733
00:42:28.840 --> 00:42:33.519
that typically exist for like verdicts like there can be

734
00:42:34.079 --> 00:42:38.599
not the asshole, you're the asshole, no assholes here, everybody

735
00:42:38.639 --> 00:42:43.840
sucks here, lots of different verdicts, and I think definitely

736
00:42:44.400 --> 00:42:46.320
your friend's not the asshole, so.

737
00:42:47.800 --> 00:42:51.480
Right, and I see a lot of people saying like

738
00:42:51.559 --> 00:42:53.960
that that was okay to say, and like, you don't

739
00:42:54.760 --> 00:42:58.719
this one says, oh, no, one is forced to placate

740
00:42:58.760 --> 00:43:00.000
other people's delusions.

741
00:43:00.639 --> 00:43:04.320
That's mean. That is mean.

742
00:43:05.280 --> 00:43:08.039
So now that we know that we're not forced to

743
00:43:08.079 --> 00:43:13.119
placate other people's delusions. God, definitely not the asshole, then

744
00:43:13.199 --> 00:43:13.639
I guess.

745
00:43:14.880 --> 00:43:17.559
I mean that person also sounds like an asshole. For

746
00:43:17.679 --> 00:43:23.000
what it's worth. People on the internet. Man, it's just it.

747
00:43:23.280 --> 00:43:26.960
I mean, here's the thing is that is a fucking

748
00:43:27.039 --> 00:43:29.480
bar and technically they are not wrong.

749
00:43:29.719 --> 00:43:30.599
I just don't.

750
00:43:31.360 --> 00:43:34.480
I just don't feel like the steaks are high enough.

751
00:43:35.159 --> 00:43:38.079
I just I don't know, Man, I don't know.

752
00:43:38.920 --> 00:43:44.960
I don't think. Let us know in the comments. Do

753
00:43:45.000 --> 00:43:46.679
you want to do one more? I think I have

754
00:43:46.719 --> 00:43:52.360
some shorter ones. Okay, I have one more number in

755
00:43:52.639 --> 00:43:55.840
mind at least I both. Yeah. If I have to pick,

756
00:43:55.880 --> 00:44:00.159
I know what number I would pick next? Eight? Okay?

757
00:44:00.559 --> 00:44:04.280
Am I the asshole? If I insist on believing in Bigfoot?

758
00:44:06.440 --> 00:44:10.559
I don't know how insistent are you? Oh? God?

759
00:44:11.239 --> 00:44:14.920
I feel like is this where like the tables turn

760
00:44:15.199 --> 00:44:18.639
and now the paranormal person is actually the asshole?

761
00:44:19.199 --> 00:44:19.760
I don't know.

762
00:44:20.000 --> 00:44:24.400
I guess we'll see my family doesn't have faith in Bigfoot.

763
00:44:24.679 --> 00:44:28.159
Well, that's just depressing. I'm so sorry. That's really diffe

764
00:44:28.320 --> 00:44:31.320
I do. I hate to see it. Well, especially if

765
00:44:31.320 --> 00:44:33.679
you do. Yeah.

766
00:44:34.280 --> 00:44:38.079
This last weekend at a family party, folks started ridiculing

767
00:44:38.079 --> 00:44:42.440
Bigfoot believers. I suggested that there's more physical evidence for

768
00:44:42.519 --> 00:44:43.880
Bigfoot than Jesus.

769
00:44:44.559 --> 00:44:45.800
Awkwardness ensued.

770
00:44:46.159 --> 00:44:46.800
I mean.

771
00:44:48.639 --> 00:44:54.000
Grandma might have fainted. No, we're really painting a picture.

772
00:44:54.920 --> 00:44:57.639
No, did they say that that's actually in the story

773
00:44:57.679 --> 00:44:59.079
the grandma might have fainted.

774
00:44:59.320 --> 00:45:01.000
They said grandma might have fainted.

775
00:45:01.519 --> 00:45:04.519
And when I said that Bigfoot might be Cain, they

776
00:45:04.559 --> 00:45:05.719
took away my plate.

777
00:45:07.079 --> 00:45:13.199
Wait that Bigfoot might be Cain? Yes, nope, I just

778
00:45:13.320 --> 00:45:14.519
I just got there.

779
00:45:15.360 --> 00:45:18.079
Okay. I'm like, I guess it's a Bible thing. I

780
00:45:18.159 --> 00:45:24.360
wouldn't know. Yeah, you're like, I don't know. So that's

781
00:45:24.400 --> 00:45:26.840
the end. So what do you think are they that's.

782
00:45:29.039 --> 00:45:33.840
We're saying that there's more physical evidence for Bigfoot than Jesus.

783
00:45:34.000 --> 00:45:35.480
And they made their grandma faint.

784
00:45:36.599 --> 00:45:40.920
Well, they said grandma might have fainted, might have fainted.

785
00:45:41.519 --> 00:45:41.719
Might.

786
00:45:43.719 --> 00:45:52.039
Wow, that's a tough one. I think this goes back

787
00:45:52.079 --> 00:45:56.840
to knowing your audience a little, right, Yeah.

788
00:45:56.079 --> 00:45:58.599
I think maybe saying that Bigfoot might be Caine was

789
00:45:58.639 --> 00:46:01.000
like maybe a step too far.

790
00:46:01.400 --> 00:46:03.159
Yeah, that might be a bridge too far.

791
00:46:05.079 --> 00:46:13.039
I don't know how much physical like evidence there is

792
00:46:13.079 --> 00:46:17.239
for either of these individuals, to be honest, I don't

793
00:46:17.400 --> 00:46:20.920
I don't know that there's I'm sure, I'm sure there

794
00:46:20.920 --> 00:46:25.960
are people that think there is physical evidence for either

795
00:46:26.079 --> 00:46:30.480
one of like and very passionately that I maybe would

796
00:46:30.480 --> 00:46:33.239
not consider physical evidence.

797
00:46:35.000 --> 00:46:39.639
That there's a whole Bigfoot museum full of evidence. Uh huh?

798
00:46:39.960 --> 00:46:43.519
Is there a Jesus museum full of and there's there's

799
00:46:43.519 --> 00:46:47.800
a lot of mega churches. We're going to do a

800
00:46:47.840 --> 00:46:49.079
quick Google search for.

801
00:46:49.760 --> 00:46:56.639
Okay, physical evidence of the existence of Bigfoot. Google says

802
00:46:57.159 --> 00:47:02.679
physical evidence for Bigfoot is anecdotal and inconclusive, consisting mainly

803
00:47:02.760 --> 00:47:08.039
of blurry photos, slash videos like the Patterson Gimblin film,

804
00:47:08.440 --> 00:47:14.000
large footprint footprint casts often debunked or identified as known animals,

805
00:47:14.480 --> 00:47:21.360
alleged hair slash scat samples usually deer or bear, and vocalizations,

806
00:47:21.440 --> 00:47:26.599
but scientific consensus finds no concrete proof, with most findings

807
00:47:26.800 --> 00:47:33.079
attributable to folklore, misidentification, or hoaxes, though some researchers cite

808
00:47:34.280 --> 00:47:38.920
unique features in tracks like the Skukum cast as potential evidence.

809
00:47:39.920 --> 00:47:42.920
We don't know if it's physical, real physical evidence or not.

810
00:47:43.320 --> 00:47:45.920
It's it's not been clarified.

811
00:47:46.719 --> 00:47:47.159
Mm hmmm.

812
00:47:47.840 --> 00:47:50.719
So it's possible that there is more physical evidence of

813
00:47:50.760 --> 00:47:51.639
Big With than Jesus.

814
00:47:51.679 --> 00:47:52.119
We don't know.

815
00:47:53.920 --> 00:47:59.440
Do you want me to read the overview for Jesus. Yes,

816
00:48:00.159 --> 00:48:05.639
there is no definitive, direct physical evidence in parentheses like

817
00:48:05.719 --> 00:48:10.760
a photograph, DNA, or personal artifact of Jesus, as peasants

818
00:48:10.840 --> 00:48:15.440
from that era rarely left such records, but historians rely

819
00:48:15.719 --> 00:48:19.079
on literary evidence and artifacts from the time to confirm

820
00:48:19.159 --> 00:48:24.519
a historical figure named Jesus likely existed, and his baptism

821
00:48:24.639 --> 00:48:29.960
and crucifixion being widely accepted historical events, while claims of

822
00:48:30.039 --> 00:48:36.360
relics like the Shroud of Turin lacks scientific consensus. That

823
00:48:36.519 --> 00:48:38.440
was the first thing that popped into my head. I

824
00:48:38.480 --> 00:48:41.039
was like, Oh, I know the shrouds. I know we're

825
00:48:41.039 --> 00:48:41.599
going to talk.

826
00:48:41.440 --> 00:48:43.599
About the shrouds. I don't know that. I don't know that.

827
00:48:44.199 --> 00:48:51.159
It's not important, it's not evidence of anything like, So.

828
00:48:51.519 --> 00:48:54.920
I mean, Big Book could be Jesus Jesus could be Bigfoot.

829
00:48:55.320 --> 00:48:57.920
Yeah, I don't know that that. I don't think we

830
00:48:58.000 --> 00:49:04.000
have to draw a parallels or like, I think sometimes

831
00:49:04.039 --> 00:49:08.199
it's okay to put the red string down, like they

832
00:49:08.239 --> 00:49:13.599
are both equally elusive individuals, and that might be where

833
00:49:13.639 --> 00:49:20.119
the similarities begin to sort of break off and diverge.

834
00:49:20.360 --> 00:49:24.360
Okay, but if there was, if there was such a thing,

835
00:49:24.440 --> 00:49:27.880
would we call him Big Jesus or Jesus' foot? Ooh,

836
00:49:28.960 --> 00:49:33.000
big Jesus Foot. You know what, I think we're going

837
00:49:33.039 --> 00:49:42.079
to have Jesus workshop it if you'll be JAJJ Big Jesus. No,

838
00:49:42.199 --> 00:49:43.360
he's just going by BJ.

839
00:49:44.320 --> 00:49:47.239
I just think sometimes I just I want to ask

840
00:49:47.360 --> 00:49:52.079
people why why why why do we have to bring

841
00:49:52.159 --> 00:49:55.639
up these topics with people that you know, very in

842
00:49:56.440 --> 00:50:01.880
very specifically have contradictory or or like opposite end of

843
00:50:01.920 --> 00:50:09.280
the spectrum views. And yeah, it's I would argue in

844
00:50:09.480 --> 00:50:16.719
most cases, whether you believe more strongly in Jesus or Bigfoot.

845
00:50:15.400 --> 00:50:17.880
As long as you're not pushing it on anyone else,

846
00:50:19.519 --> 00:50:21.800
that's fine. Believe what you want to believe.

847
00:50:22.239 --> 00:50:25.320
But I do think the principle of like trying to

848
00:50:25.400 --> 00:50:28.280
force your beliefs on someone else it applies to you

849
00:50:28.360 --> 00:50:33.559
over there too, squatch, So yeah, I agree. I don't

850
00:50:33.639 --> 00:50:37.960
know that they're really like being as pushy in the

851
00:50:38.000 --> 00:50:46.079
way that we're familiar with typically evangelicals behaving here.

852
00:50:46.760 --> 00:50:51.000
There couldn't be some evangelical bigfooters out there. I love

853
00:50:51.079 --> 00:50:53.119
that for them. Well, I want someone to.

854
00:50:53.119 --> 00:50:56.239
Draw us artwork of big Jesus, so get on that

855
00:50:57.280 --> 00:51:00.880
mail us. I like this one person's call that says

856
00:51:01.199 --> 00:51:04.280
it's an asshole moved to belittle someone else's beliefs, be

857
00:51:04.360 --> 00:51:05.440
that big Boot or Jesus.

858
00:51:05.480 --> 00:51:09.000
And I agree with that. That's what I said.

859
00:51:09.480 --> 00:51:12.000
Mm hmm, yeah, that's yeah, basically what you said. But

860
00:51:12.039 --> 00:51:16.039
he said it in like two sentences and with less.

861
00:51:16.119 --> 00:51:20.639
Uh no, that was perfect. Okay, Yeah, so they were

862
00:51:20.760 --> 00:51:24.239
considered not the asshole, which I feel like, maybe everyone's

863
00:51:24.239 --> 00:51:25.440
an asshole in this situation.

864
00:51:25.599 --> 00:51:29.840
I would say, I don't know. I actually think this

865
00:51:30.039 --> 00:51:34.639
is a better example. And and I've heard other shows

866
00:51:34.639 --> 00:51:36.960
talk about this. There's sort of a paradox of like,

867
00:51:37.599 --> 00:51:41.639
is it no assholes here versus everybody sucks?

868
00:51:42.559 --> 00:51:44.639
And I don't think, oh right, everybody sucks.

869
00:51:44.920 --> 00:51:48.840
Yeah, I don't really think that everybody sucks here.

870
00:51:49.000 --> 00:51:52.000
Probably not Grandma thought she just might have fainted. She

871
00:51:52.039 --> 00:51:53.360
probably didn't have anything to.

872
00:51:53.320 --> 00:51:53.679
Do with it.

873
00:51:53.960 --> 00:51:57.880
Yeah. I think this is more of a no assholes here,

874
00:51:58.000 --> 00:52:03.519
because you guys just have like very diametrically opposed belief systems.

875
00:52:04.000 --> 00:52:08.000
Oh no, no, no, heavily disagreed. Do you remember the

876
00:52:08.119 --> 00:52:14.280
last sentence Okay, yeah, when I said that they took

877
00:52:14.480 --> 00:52:17.920
away my plate. You don't like someone's food.

878
00:52:18.599 --> 00:52:20.880
No, I didn't hear that they took away as plate.

879
00:52:21.119 --> 00:52:22.039
I didn't hear that.

880
00:52:22.000 --> 00:52:25.239
You don't fuck with No, I don't walk with someone's food.

881
00:52:26.119 --> 00:52:28.480
I feel like this is that episode of Friends where

882
00:52:28.480 --> 00:52:31.320
it's like Joey doesn't share food.

883
00:52:32.280 --> 00:52:36.559
Yes, I don't care if you don't believe in Jesus.

884
00:52:36.639 --> 00:52:37.840
Don't take somebody's plate.

885
00:52:38.679 --> 00:52:42.880
Okay, yeah, Actually that kind of pushes me in the

886
00:52:42.960 --> 00:52:47.039
other direction. I kind of almost think maybe I mentioned

887
00:52:47.159 --> 00:52:49.880
the paradox right, but actually this kind of pushes me

888
00:52:49.960 --> 00:52:51.199
to everybody sucks.

889
00:52:50.960 --> 00:52:55.800
Here, Yeah, because I mean I don't necessarily think like

890
00:52:55.880 --> 00:52:58.960
the Bigfoot believer was kind of just getting defensive because

891
00:52:59.039 --> 00:53:01.440
they were picking up I'm saying that's big.

892
00:53:01.280 --> 00:53:04.400
Footb Well, but like you said, then you go and

893
00:53:04.480 --> 00:53:06.639
pick that the cane and abel thing.

894
00:53:07.880 --> 00:53:10.719
I don't give a shit you. I thought it was hilarious.

895
00:53:11.079 --> 00:53:14.239
But if you know that you are in a group

896
00:53:14.320 --> 00:53:17.960
of religious people and this is something that they revere

897
00:53:18.159 --> 00:53:21.519
and is important to them, and you say that, I

898
00:53:21.559 --> 00:53:25.280
don't know, man, they definitely think you're an asshole.

899
00:53:25.360 --> 00:53:28.639
Obviously they took your plate. They took your plate, but like, yeah,

900
00:53:28.719 --> 00:53:31.199
don't take plate, So that's not nice. Yeah, that's me

901
00:53:31.239 --> 00:53:31.559
to eat.

902
00:53:31.599 --> 00:53:35.880
You know, starvation is not a punishment. Okay, we've talked

903
00:53:35.880 --> 00:53:36.599
about this.

904
00:53:37.280 --> 00:53:39.840
I mean, it is a punishment, but it's against the

905
00:53:39.920 --> 00:53:41.320
Geneva convention.

906
00:53:41.239 --> 00:53:44.519
Right, it's not an acceptable punishment. Yeah, that was from

907
00:53:44.639 --> 00:53:47.119
user you loose gum by the way.

908
00:53:47.159 --> 00:53:47.840
You loose gum.

909
00:53:47.920 --> 00:53:52.079
Okay, what if you only let someone eat haunted pickles?

910
00:53:54.800 --> 00:53:59.239
Here you get a play to haunted pickles? Okay, I

911
00:53:59.280 --> 00:54:00.920
have one more short? When should we do it?

912
00:54:01.440 --> 00:54:09.239
Definitely it is from user ever Abe Okay, like Abe

913
00:54:09.280 --> 00:54:10.559
Lincoln the Vampire Hunter?

914
00:54:11.280 --> 00:54:13.880
Right, Okay?

915
00:54:13.960 --> 00:54:16.119
Am I the asshole for letting my eleven year old

916
00:54:16.159 --> 00:54:19.239
son go around town wearing a Michael Myers mask carrying

917
00:54:19.239 --> 00:54:31.159
a butter knife. Yeah, I don't know, I know the title.

918
00:54:31.199 --> 00:54:34.960
I say, no, Well, okay, I need info though, because

919
00:54:35.039 --> 00:54:39.039
as someone who was definitely chased by a terrifying child

920
00:54:39.119 --> 00:54:44.519
with a weapon in their neighborhood, listen, not everything is

921
00:54:44.559 --> 00:54:47.800
a boys will be voice situation, and we have to

922
00:54:47.800 --> 00:54:48.599
stop saying that.

923
00:54:49.719 --> 00:54:52.800
Yeah yeah, no, yeah, no one will be by you

924
00:54:52.880 --> 00:54:57.800
guys like I'm here. Oh, I didn't know this would

925
00:54:57.800 --> 00:54:58.800
be so triggering for you.

926
00:54:58.880 --> 00:55:01.760
I know, I know who could have known because I

927
00:55:01.920 --> 00:55:04.119
just normally come across a so well adjusted.

928
00:55:04.280 --> 00:55:10.719
So my son loves costumes, special effects, makeup, et cetera,

929
00:55:11.440 --> 00:55:13.239
I said, etcetera, etcetera.

930
00:55:13.760 --> 00:55:15.119
We'll just leave it, that's fine.

931
00:55:15.360 --> 00:55:19.599
This morning, he wore his Michael Myers latex mask and

932
00:55:19.679 --> 00:55:22.360
carried a dull butter knife to go stand in front

933
00:55:22.360 --> 00:55:24.159
of the neighbor's house to be spooky.

934
00:55:25.559 --> 00:55:29.880
Okay, all right, I'm gonna let you finish.

935
00:55:29.920 --> 00:55:33.960
The neighbor knows my son well and thought it was hysterical,

936
00:55:34.320 --> 00:55:37.840
sent me pictures. It entertained their children as well.

937
00:55:38.400 --> 00:55:40.679
Okay, So I'm like, that's fine if it was just

938
00:55:41.119 --> 00:55:44.159
if it was it's your asshole neighbor and you're like, hey, kid,

939
00:55:44.360 --> 00:55:45.559
just go be creepy.

940
00:55:45.960 --> 00:55:51.000
Right, Yeah, yeah, this could really go It could go

941
00:55:51.159 --> 00:55:52.280
very differently.

942
00:55:53.639 --> 00:55:57.079
Then, I got a message from another neighbor about how

943
00:55:57.480 --> 00:56:01.480
terrifying and disturbing my eleven year old son's behavior was.

944
00:56:02.920 --> 00:56:05.320
They live right next to the neighbor who was amused

945
00:56:05.400 --> 00:56:06.840
and saw my son in passing.

946
00:56:07.320 --> 00:56:09.800
Really is it that bad? Okay?

947
00:56:10.119 --> 00:56:14.840
So the specific neighbor that he's like standing outside, like

948
00:56:15.199 --> 00:56:18.039
in front of their house, they think it's funny.

949
00:56:18.679 --> 00:56:20.599
Okay. So I feel like that's a point. That's a

950
00:56:20.639 --> 00:56:21.639
point in your column.

951
00:56:22.480 --> 00:56:26.719
I will say, it's a dull butter knife, okay. So

952
00:56:26.840 --> 00:56:31.679
that's that's certainly better than like a cleaver, obviously, but

953
00:56:31.760 --> 00:56:33.159
it is still a knife.

954
00:56:34.000 --> 00:56:38.760
I feel thinking, I feel as though we could probably.

955
00:56:39.840 --> 00:56:43.920
Resolve at least a portion of what's bothersome about this

956
00:56:44.199 --> 00:56:46.800
by maybe maybe a rubber knife.

957
00:56:47.440 --> 00:56:54.079
Yeah, we're like, you know, something that looks real fake? Yes, yeah,

958
00:56:54.159 --> 00:56:55.639
I don't know. What do you think?

959
00:56:56.119 --> 00:56:58.800
I yeah, I don't know, because that's it's hard because

960
00:56:58.800 --> 00:57:02.719
it's a kid. So like the Yeah, like you said,

961
00:57:02.719 --> 00:57:05.599
even though it was a dull knife, like, the kid

962
00:57:05.679 --> 00:57:07.480
still has a weapon.

963
00:57:08.239 --> 00:57:09.559
You can poke somebody's.

964
00:57:09.199 --> 00:57:13.480
Eye out with that, Yeah, exactly, You're gonna take somebody's

965
00:57:13.519 --> 00:57:15.280
eye out with that, clerk.

966
00:57:15.400 --> 00:57:18.199
But I'm just picturing like you know what if the

967
00:57:18.199 --> 00:57:21.119
cops were rolling down the street and like you see

968
00:57:21.119 --> 00:57:24.000
this kid with a knife and then they're like, hey, kid,

969
00:57:24.159 --> 00:57:26.440
drop the weapon, and like the kid doesn't know what's

970
00:57:26.440 --> 00:57:28.960
going on, and all of a sudden, the kid gets

971
00:57:28.960 --> 00:57:30.599
shot and that's America.

972
00:57:30.880 --> 00:57:33.480
Well, yeah, that's very true. I feel like.

973
00:57:35.000 --> 00:57:39.239
There are a lot of variables that can introduce like literal,

974
00:57:39.440 --> 00:57:46.760
actual physical danger in this situation. So that's that's definitely

975
00:57:46.760 --> 00:57:50.920
something I thought about as well. I think because it's

976
00:57:51.119 --> 00:57:52.599
like an eleven year old.

977
00:57:53.719 --> 00:57:56.880
Yeah, I want to believe that everybody can.

978
00:57:57.960 --> 00:58:00.880
Understand that this is like a literal child dressed up

979
00:58:00.960 --> 00:58:05.760
or whatever. But it's also not Halloween, correct, Like it's

980
00:58:06.239 --> 00:58:08.440
it doesn't say yeah, I.

981
00:58:08.400 --> 00:58:11.000
Feel like that would have been mentioned. When was it posted?

982
00:58:11.119 --> 00:58:14.039
You have any idea? But Halloween is all the time.

983
00:58:14.320 --> 00:58:16.719
It's five years ago, it says.

984
00:58:16.519 --> 00:58:20.679
Well, listen, it's always Halloween in our hearts. But you

985
00:58:20.760 --> 00:58:24.960
know that's kind of the day where you can probably

986
00:58:26.360 --> 00:58:29.159
you're gonna have the highest chance of success with something

987
00:58:29.239 --> 00:58:29.800
like this.

988
00:58:30.679 --> 00:58:34.480
Yeah, maybe like not Halloween. Do it in your backyard,

989
00:58:34.599 --> 00:58:37.360
you know, also in your window.

990
00:58:37.199 --> 00:58:41.559
Yeah yeah, or or you go and knock on their

991
00:58:41.719 --> 00:58:44.800
door because that's the neighbor that's chill, and they think

992
00:58:44.840 --> 00:58:47.800
it's funny and they get you guys, so like you

993
00:58:47.840 --> 00:58:51.199
go and knock on their door and see my costume. Yeah,

994
00:58:51.199 --> 00:58:53.960
and then and then yeah, maybe going I don't know,

995
00:58:54.159 --> 00:58:56.559
that's I don't think they're the asshole.

996
00:58:57.800 --> 00:59:01.559
I'm really curious what it had to say. Nosy neighbors

997
00:59:01.679 --> 00:59:05.239
just irritate just so I feel out of here Karen

998
00:59:05.519 --> 00:59:10.000
Susan's mind. Okay, I'm weird though, So I'm like, if

999
00:59:10.039 --> 00:59:12.679
I saw that, I would think it was hilarious, but

1000
00:59:13.480 --> 00:59:16.000
it really depends. It really depends.

1001
00:59:17.199 --> 00:59:19.840
Yeah, like is this my little neighbor kid that I

1002
00:59:19.960 --> 00:59:25.559
know loves like scary movies. Yeah, then that's hilarious and adorable.

1003
00:59:26.719 --> 00:59:28.760
But I guess if you don't know, do I know

1004
00:59:28.840 --> 00:59:32.320
this child going on? Like have I never met this

1005
00:59:32.440 --> 00:59:35.440
child before? Am I gonna look out the window and

1006
00:59:35.440 --> 00:59:38.920
think it's like an actual black eyed child? You know,

1007
00:59:39.079 --> 00:59:40.480
like black eyed children.

1008
00:59:40.320 --> 00:59:43.480
Like email us. I don't know.

1009
00:59:43.719 --> 00:59:48.400
I just feel I do feel like, you know, how

1010
00:59:48.400 --> 00:59:52.639
things are received matters, But also I think there's a

1011
00:59:52.719 --> 00:59:58.400
fairness to considering, like what was the intent too, especially

1012
00:59:58.400 --> 01:00:01.920
for a child, because I don't think there's any actual

1013
01:00:02.000 --> 01:00:04.119
harm that's come from this, but I could be wrong.

1014
01:00:04.840 --> 01:00:05.960
It happened that one other time.

1015
01:00:06.079 --> 01:00:10.400
It was funny. Yeah, just the ones, just the ones.

1016
01:00:11.239 --> 01:00:16.320
So Reddit agrees seems to agree that they are the asshole.

1017
01:00:17.320 --> 01:00:21.800
Wait, who's they the neighbor or the poster, the poster,

1018
01:00:22.000 --> 01:00:27.559
the op they said, oh p was the asshole. Yeah, yeah,

1019
01:00:27.639 --> 01:00:29.400
I think it was a lot of what we were saying.

1020
01:00:29.519 --> 01:00:33.760
Like, I don't think they're really the asshole. This person says,

1021
01:00:33.760 --> 01:00:37.199
my uncle has PTSD from a really bad home invasion

1022
01:00:37.280 --> 01:00:40.480
years ago, and someone standing outside his home with a

1023
01:00:40.559 --> 01:00:42.360
mask could very well be triggering for him.

1024
01:00:43.079 --> 01:00:46.920
Yeah, that's fair. I don't think they're the asshole though.

1025
01:00:47.880 --> 01:00:49.840
Right, Okay, So I would be like, if you keep

1026
01:00:49.880 --> 01:00:51.880
doing if you continue to do this, you might be

1027
01:00:51.920 --> 01:00:54.360
the asshole. But like, yeah, once someone has brought to

1028
01:00:54.400 --> 01:00:57.639
your attention that it creep out or like made them

1029
01:00:57.639 --> 01:01:02.480
scared or uncomfortable, yeah, then you know, maybe don't do

1030
01:01:02.519 --> 01:01:06.760
it again or you you know. I think the worst

1031
01:01:06.800 --> 01:01:09.599
part about it is the butter knife, Like, even though

1032
01:01:09.599 --> 01:01:10.599
it's dull, Like.

1033
01:01:11.280 --> 01:01:13.920
Yeah, I do think even a butter knife, I just

1034
01:01:14.119 --> 01:01:16.840
I don't know that I would have yeah, I just

1035
01:01:16.880 --> 01:01:19.440
don't know that that's the best idea in the grand

1036
01:01:19.480 --> 01:01:20.400
scheme of things.

1037
01:01:20.760 --> 01:01:23.719
Is that really that threatening? I don't know.

1038
01:01:23.840 --> 01:01:28.760
You like, every individual person is potentially gonna like interpret

1039
01:01:28.800 --> 01:01:29.440
that differently.

1040
01:01:30.400 --> 01:01:35.360
I've been chased with like a hammer. Ooh.

1041
01:01:35.400 --> 01:01:37.880
So for me, I look at this and go like

1042
01:01:38.039 --> 01:01:42.440
actually thinking about like neighbor kids that I grew up with.

1043
01:01:43.320 --> 01:01:45.119
I know there are kids that we grew up with

1044
01:01:45.159 --> 01:01:46.840
in our neighborhood that I would have been like, this

1045
01:01:46.880 --> 01:01:47.719
is hilarious.

1046
01:01:47.760 --> 01:01:49.119
And then there are kids.

1047
01:01:48.840 --> 01:01:53.679
That I would be like, oh my god, someone get

1048
01:01:53.719 --> 01:01:58.519
out of camera because we're like, if we survive, we're

1049
01:01:58.719 --> 01:02:03.320
gonna release this, you know, indie film, indie.

1050
01:02:02.960 --> 01:02:06.239
Horror film, like uh, yeah, I don't know. I don't know.

1051
01:02:06.320 --> 01:02:08.800
That sounds terrible, but like I don't know, it depends

1052
01:02:08.840 --> 01:02:11.679
on the rapport and like what you know about this person.

1053
01:02:12.280 --> 01:02:14.800
I don't think they're an asshole. I don't know.

1054
01:02:15.800 --> 01:02:17.599
Yeah, I guess I don't think they're an asshole for

1055
01:02:17.719 --> 01:02:19.159
just there an asshole.

1056
01:02:18.760 --> 01:02:22.800
If they keep doing it, probably yeah, I agree with you, And.

1057
01:02:22.760 --> 01:02:25.760
I would say definitely like maybe not even a fake weapon,

1058
01:02:25.920 --> 01:02:29.960
like maybe just no no weapons, you know, like it's

1059
01:02:30.000 --> 01:02:32.719
just well, because people just don't know, right.

1060
01:02:33.119 --> 01:02:35.679
I do think that the mask is scary enough if

1061
01:02:35.679 --> 01:02:39.320
there's no weapon, Like, maybe that's a good compromise. I

1062
01:02:39.320 --> 01:02:42.280
do think it's something where I don't know how much

1063
01:02:42.840 --> 01:02:44.800
how well do you know your neighbors? How much do

1064
01:02:44.840 --> 01:02:47.239
you care about the rapport that you have with them?

1065
01:02:47.679 --> 01:02:51.199
Maybe it's worth having a conversation with them about and

1066
01:02:51.239 --> 01:02:56.559
saying so sorry if like that upset you. You know,

1067
01:02:56.800 --> 01:02:59.000
you don't have to get into anything with me that

1068
01:02:59.039 --> 01:03:02.760
you're not comfortable with, But like, would it bother you

1069
01:03:03.480 --> 01:03:06.400
if you know? I don't know, maybe you can find

1070
01:03:06.440 --> 01:03:08.760
some sort of like a middle ground where I don't.

1071
01:03:08.519 --> 01:03:10.559
Know how often is this kid gonna do this? It

1072
01:03:10.599 --> 01:03:14.239
sounds like yeah, kind of like that.

1073
01:03:14.480 --> 01:03:18.480
I don't know. And if he's constantly dressing up like

1074
01:03:18.599 --> 01:03:22.559
some sort of horrifying character, that might be different.

1075
01:03:22.760 --> 01:03:23.719
But I don't know.

1076
01:03:23.760 --> 01:03:26.000
If he's just going to the neighbor's house who they're

1077
01:03:26.000 --> 01:03:28.840
friends with and stare steering into their windows, I don't

1078
01:03:28.840 --> 01:03:32.599
see anything wrong with that. Yeah, being creepy outside, Like,

1079
01:03:32.679 --> 01:03:34.760
don't go to your other neighbors who you know don't

1080
01:03:34.880 --> 01:03:36.039
like it, go.

1081
01:03:36.119 --> 01:03:37.360
I mean your windows.

1082
01:03:37.679 --> 01:03:39.880
The tough thing is is that it's like it's a

1083
01:03:39.920 --> 01:03:45.719
public sidewalk, public street. Yeah, and so that goes both

1084
01:03:45.760 --> 01:03:48.320
ways because you can do what you want to a

1085
01:03:48.440 --> 01:03:52.159
point on a public sidewalk or whatever, But that also

1086
01:03:52.239 --> 01:03:55.519
means that other people can see you. So you you

1087
01:03:55.639 --> 01:03:59.159
might have intended this for only that neighbor that you

1088
01:03:59.199 --> 01:04:03.119
guys have go relationship with, but anybody else who looks

1089
01:04:03.119 --> 01:04:06.199
out their window is seeing it. So it's worth it's

1090
01:04:06.239 --> 01:04:07.559
worth at least considering.

1091
01:04:08.400 --> 01:04:13.079
I don't know, definitely weaponless, go weaponless.

1092
01:04:13.159 --> 01:04:16.480
I feel like weaponless is probably the way to go. Yeah,

1093
01:04:16.800 --> 01:04:18.519
for so many reasons.

1094
01:04:19.880 --> 01:04:23.480
Oh boy, yeah, yeah, And a lot of people said,

1095
01:04:23.559 --> 01:04:26.440
like if it were Halloween, that would be different, but

1096
01:04:27.400 --> 01:04:28.599
I would still say maybe no.

1097
01:04:28.639 --> 01:04:35.039
Weapon even on Halloween, that is not without potential hazard.

1098
01:04:35.400 --> 01:04:37.360
I would say, I think you're right.

1099
01:04:37.400 --> 01:04:41.079
I think weaponless almost regardless if any of the other

1100
01:04:41.199 --> 01:04:44.320
circumstances is probably the way to go. I know that

1101
01:04:44.440 --> 01:04:47.719
seems like so I don't know. Part of me is

1102
01:04:48.159 --> 01:04:50.079
it's so lame, But whatever.

1103
01:04:50.679 --> 01:04:52.559
This is what like I was concerned about. I have

1104
01:04:52.639 --> 01:04:54.280
no idea if this is true or not. It's just

1105
01:04:54.320 --> 01:04:57.280
somebody's comment. Oh it says we live in a world.

1106
01:04:57.119 --> 01:04:59.400
Where cops shot and killed a kid with a gun,

1107
01:04:59.519 --> 01:05:03.599
a toy gun missing. Oh it was missing the orange chip.

1108
01:05:03.639 --> 01:05:05.239
I thought it's that it had the orange chip on.

1109
01:05:05.679 --> 01:05:09.440
Oh right, so like but yeah, because that's what we

1110
01:05:09.639 --> 01:05:11.599
tell them, that it's a toy and it's.

1111
01:05:11.519 --> 01:05:16.639
Right, Like all they see is metal.

1112
01:05:17.039 --> 01:05:20.000
You could still step someone, even with adult knife. I

1113
01:05:20.000 --> 01:05:25.880
would argue it would be worse to step out. Oh god, Okay, yeah,

1114
01:05:26.000 --> 01:05:28.480
I didn't really see this taking a true crime bent,

1115
01:05:28.599 --> 01:05:29.280
but here we are.

1116
01:05:30.840 --> 01:05:38.199
Oh yeah, you're welcome. Okay, so yeah, thanks so much.

1117
01:05:40.920 --> 01:05:44.719
I pulled out my This is one of the Christmas

1118
01:05:44.760 --> 01:05:51.599
gifts that you get Toma. It's my little Leo pocket zodiac.

1119
01:05:52.119 --> 01:05:55.960
It has forty magical messages from the stars.

1120
01:05:56.400 --> 01:05:58.440
I love it. Let's care one.

1121
01:05:59.000 --> 01:06:03.639
Okay, should I do which category? So I can do love,

1122
01:06:03.840 --> 01:06:07.840
career well being or family well being?

1123
01:06:08.800 --> 01:06:10.639
I feel like that's good for an am.

1124
01:06:10.679 --> 01:06:17.199
I the asshole segment segment episode I mean to say, okay.

1125
01:06:16.960 --> 01:06:20.239
Let's see. Okay, I'm reading two of them.

1126
01:06:20.320 --> 01:06:23.039
There's nothing any of you can do to stop me,

1127
01:06:23.760 --> 01:06:26.400
but I dare you to try.

1128
01:06:26.599 --> 01:06:26.880
Yeah.

1129
01:06:27.000 --> 01:06:29.079
It's a woman like sitting in a tree. And then

1130
01:06:29.119 --> 01:06:32.079
there's this one she's like putting on makeup.

1131
01:06:33.079 --> 01:06:35.039
I'll have to take it. I'll have to take a

1132
01:06:35.880 --> 01:06:36.719
picture of these.

1133
01:06:37.039 --> 01:06:40.440
Okay, is the woman in the tree because she tripped

1134
01:06:40.480 --> 01:06:47.360
on a log, the bark eater, the.

1135
01:06:47.320 --> 01:06:48.119
Bark eater.

1136
01:06:49.599 --> 01:06:56.199
Hope she's eating bark and haunted pickles. Okay, love yourself.

1137
01:06:56.800 --> 01:07:02.480
The famous psychologist James Hellman's said beauty is something everybody

1138
01:07:02.559 --> 01:07:06.519
longs for. The soul yearns for it. Psychology seems to

1139
01:07:06.599 --> 01:07:11.599
have forgotten that. However, you haven't forgotten about beauty. It's

1140
01:07:11.599 --> 01:07:15.679
an intrinsic need in your vision of life. Love yourself

1141
01:07:16.039 --> 01:07:20.960
to heal yourself feels like very New Year's resolution.

1142
01:07:21.880 --> 01:07:23.679
It does. Yeah.

1143
01:07:23.760 --> 01:07:27.639
I remember kind of thumbing through the deck and thinking like, wow,

1144
01:07:27.719 --> 01:07:30.719
this is like the timing of this is very It

1145
01:07:30.760 --> 01:07:31.719
feels very right.

1146
01:07:32.639 --> 01:07:35.639
Okay, and the second one I'm gonna read is good Life.

1147
01:07:36.519 --> 01:07:39.280
Did you know that there is a frog in southern

1148
01:07:39.360 --> 01:07:42.679
Africa that is seemingly the saddest animal.

1149
01:07:42.360 --> 01:07:48.719
In the world. Oh, I know why. I own know.

1150
01:07:49.639 --> 01:07:52.679
It has a downturned snout and only comes out of

1151
01:07:52.719 --> 01:07:54.280
its den when it rains.

1152
01:07:55.119 --> 01:07:58.079
Oh I know it's gonna cut.

1153
01:07:58.199 --> 01:08:02.519
I'm only happy when it rains. I live like seeing

1154
01:08:03.599 --> 01:08:04.599
and then that song.

1155
01:08:05.880 --> 01:08:08.760
If it's true that we often need a mirror to

1156
01:08:08.880 --> 01:08:11.840
understand what we don't want to be, then you need

1157
01:08:11.880 --> 01:08:15.920
to mirror yourself in this frog and be the complete opposite.

1158
01:08:16.319 --> 01:08:18.720
So don't be the saddest frog in the world.

1159
01:08:18.760 --> 01:08:23.720
Don't be like condescending, don't or sha your opinions on

1160
01:08:23.800 --> 01:08:24.880
everyone else.

1161
01:08:24.760 --> 01:08:25.880
Like if you don't like it.

1162
01:08:26.479 --> 01:08:29.520
Yeah, like kind of what we were talking about through

1163
01:08:29.560 --> 01:08:32.119
all these people who didn't believe people's stories and we're

1164
01:08:32.199 --> 01:08:37.920
kind of rude about it. Yeah, grass frogs are green,

1165
01:08:37.960 --> 01:08:42.439
and so are pickles. That's true. And if there's moss

1166
01:08:42.479 --> 01:08:44.439
on the bark, then so is bark.

1167
01:08:46.079 --> 01:08:48.039
Which one was that? Was that the tree one or

1168
01:08:48.079 --> 01:08:50.159
the makeup? The makeup one was first that you read?

1169
01:08:50.640 --> 01:08:52.800
Yeah, the makeup one was the one I read first,

1170
01:08:52.960 --> 01:08:56.159
and the one with the frog is the tree one?

1171
01:08:56.520 --> 01:08:59.640
Ah yeah, okay, I think that's cute. What was the

1172
01:08:59.640 --> 01:09:01.800
first one? Again? Love yourself?

1173
01:09:02.199 --> 01:09:05.600
Oh yeah, okay, So I was thinking like, even if

1174
01:09:05.640 --> 01:09:09.960
you're an asshole, you should love yourself because only through love.

1175
01:09:10.159 --> 01:09:12.199
Because you're the only one that will if you keep

1176
01:09:12.239 --> 01:09:15.399
active with that. Hey, I was trying to be nice.

1177
01:09:16.920 --> 01:09:19.439
I would say only through love will your heart grow

1178
01:09:19.600 --> 01:09:22.720
three times? But it's not Christmas. Ah, that's right.

1179
01:09:23.399 --> 01:09:27.479
No, I do think you know, self love is important,

1180
01:09:27.560 --> 01:09:31.880
and I do think that probably if you try to

1181
01:09:31.960 --> 01:09:35.520
exhibit some of those qualities, you might find yourself also

1182
01:09:35.680 --> 01:09:39.319
being kinder to other people. I don't know, or maybe

1183
01:09:39.319 --> 01:09:41.960
you're just human trash.

1184
01:09:42.159 --> 01:09:51.119
I'd rather be big Jesus. Yeah, b joke, Joe, all right,

1185
01:09:51.960 --> 01:09:59.760
should we uh end this? Yeah? Asshole? Soowed have fastic

1186
01:10:01.079 --> 01:10:03.960
See you next Thursday. Tuesday.

1187
01:10:03.960 --> 01:10:05.960
I had it wrong, I know, I said. As soon

1188
01:10:06.000 --> 01:10:07.600
as it was coming out of my mouth, I was like, no,

1189
01:10:07.840 --> 01:10:10.239
that's not right. And I'm also waving at nothing.

1190
01:10:10.399 --> 01:10:10.680
I know.

1191
01:10:10.840 --> 01:10:14.239
Old habits are hard to break. You know, it's been

1192
01:10:14.279 --> 01:10:19.760
a struggle for us. Transition is difficult. Okay, everybody struggles

1193
01:10:19.800 --> 01:10:20.079
with it.

1194
01:10:20.159 --> 01:10:26.800
But we can do it. We might do it.

1195
01:10:27.000 --> 01:10:31.239
We don't know, like we already did it though we

1196
01:10:31.279 --> 01:10:32.640
already switched to Thursday.

1197
01:10:32.920 --> 01:10:35.039
We did Okay, we did it. We did it. We

1198
01:10:35.079 --> 01:10:37.720
did it. I thought you just meant life in general

1199
01:10:37.920 --> 01:10:41.159
we can do and I was like, we're doing it.

1200
01:10:41.319 --> 01:10:44.479
That might be doing it. That's less certain, but Thursdays

1201
01:10:44.479 --> 01:10:49.800
we already did. Yeah. Yeah, unless it turns into a Friday. Yeah,

1202
01:10:49.800 --> 01:10:50.319
who knows